“It is your birthday. You are bringing us this cake?” “Yes. Because I lived in South Asia for a long while. On birthdays there, it is common to give candy or small gifts to friends on your birthday. I did it for seven years there, and it became part of my birthday tradition. I’m not …
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Here is the 2nd half of my post from last week. ____________________ When our family first moved to South Asia, we had good plans. Some were our own ideas we wanted to see happen. Some were things we strongly felt God wanted to do through our family. (Perhaps there is a little bit of both …
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Dear International Worker, When it comes to your life and work, plan well and be wise. Continue your training. Draw from your experiences and resources. Do all of this. It’s smart. But don’t forget that change, transition, and the unexpected will increasingly be part of the lifestyle you’ve chosen. Even though you’ll never know …
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A few days ago, my new friend grabbed my hand to lead me on a tour of her work place. The familiarity of this gesture recalled several memories of holding hands with friends in South Asia. Occasionally the sights, smells, and sounds here come close to what I knew in South Asia, but with the …
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"I'm not one of those people who... learns languages easily." God has gifted in languages." memorizes things easily." is brave enough to practice language in public." I started hearing statements like this when I began studying my second language. I still hear similar things and I'm on my fourth. If I'm having a bad day sometimes I …
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Yes. For so many reasons, learn the language. When I reached proficiency in my second language, many people expressed how excited they were for my new skill. "You'll be able to help other people and share God's love around the world!" was a commonly expressed sentiment. True. But my own life, understanding of God, people, …
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Dear International Worker, Receive. Part 2. Here is the rest of my Post on Receiving, Thanks for reading! ❤ Chrissy Receiving well: Demonstrates the truth that I have something to learn. I don’t know everything about life in my host country, no matter how long I’ve been here. Listening well and receiving new ideas from …
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I had been lying on the couch all morning—the side of my face sweating into it’s brown, corduroy material. My face would probably have the red “corduroy lines” across it for a while, but I didn’t care. Looking after my small daughter as she watched back to back episodes of My Little Pony ™ was …
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My friend was angry at first, then she burst into tears. I had been there a few years earlier so I listened for a long while before sharing anything. Someone slammed into the back of her car at a red light, then sped away. The tail lights were broken and the bumper was barely hanging …
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